Like that girl? discover how to tell

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Well, it's not easy to tell that girl that attracts you, because if you like a lot surely nerves can betray you at the wrong time. "To prevent this from happening, you should plan a strategy on where it say and what words to use." First of all, do not make the common mistake that many guys make: hurry to tell shortly after meeting, in addition to inappropriate, tracks you need. First to know her at least a few weeks, in which time you can make connections between them, whether they share some tastes, such as food, music or hobbies. It will also serve to know if you are interested in you.


If you passed the test of the above, then it is time you play your cards right and you confess that you like. Rosa Montoya, couple therapist attached to the Mexican Institute of Sexuality gives you five basic tips for you to succeed in your task:

1. Displays security


Nothing attracts a woman more than a man safe and determinacy (which should not be confused with superb). Show yourself as someone who will not shake hands to say what he feels and who dares to express it.

2. Put yourself in their shoes


The key to knowing weeks in advance, is that you know and then you can figure out what language or situation might embarrass her or, on the contrary, feel at ease. If you are unsure, then try to be cautious and slightly thrown. And do not focus on physical attractiveness, they prefer that you admire for their qualities as individuals.


3. The right place


There has to be a romantic restaurant to do so. In fact that's a cliché. Just looking for a place that you both enjoy, but try to be alone. That will prevent uncomfortable. And for God's sake, do not do it with friends or against others. It will not work well for either.


4. Speak clearly


Do not use an elaborate language or big words. Be yourself. You do not want her to feel that someone else is declared. Convey your feelings clearly, using simple words and do not give many turns to tell him that you like.


5. Do not be impatient


Do not ask me to answer right away, in fact it is very unpleasant to feel pressured to such an important question. If no connection between the two, it is likely to agree to be your partner. But you must also be prepared for rejection. If this happens do not push or get mad, unlike you'd tell them to remain friends even if they do not develop a closer relationship. 

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